Falling in love is easy, but staying in love is hard! It’s a choice we have to make each day to stand by someone in all phases of their life. A constant decision making process, that involves selflessness and dedication towards your partner.
In this article we list out three important questions that one should ask their partner on a daily basis to keep their relationship stress-free. Also, you can read our tips on how to build a long term romantic relationship with your partner.
1) “How was your day?”
A lot of people often fail to ask this one important question to their partner on a daily basis, and thus remain unaware about things going on in their life. Before you start sharing anything important or exciting about your day, make it a habit to find out how was their day. This will make your partner feel cared and it’s a great way of building a strong bonding with your significant other, by giving them priority and some importance.
2) “How did the important meeting/task go?”
If you are aware that your partner had an important client meeting liked up during the day or had an important presentation, then don’t forget to ask specifically about that. A lot of people feel that only asking “How was your day” is good enough, however, when in a relationship, our expectations from our significant other increases and thus we secretly crave for some extra care and attention. You can nurture your relationship with all of that by inquiring about important things of their life regularly. This will make them realise that you notice and remember even the smallest things related to their life and are bored about it as well. Thus leading to greater mutual love and respect in the marriage.
3) “How do you plan to spend your day/evening?”
While a lot of couples do take care of the above two points, third is where most of them fail. Women are often accused of forcing their plans on their boyfriends or husbands, thus infusing stress in their relationship slowly and gradually. Before telling him what you want to do and how you plan to spend the evening, you should always ask his plans first. This is firstly help you understand what’s going on in your partner’s mind, and secondly reduce the chances of any kind of fights. Then after finding out about their mood and plans for the day/evening, you can surely discuss the ideas you have in mind and work out a way mutually. Practicing this on a daily basis will definitely lead to better understanding between you two.
So, now that you know what questions can make your relationship stress-free, start the habit of asking them daily and build a great bond with your spouse or spouse-to-be.